I messaged her yesterday (we're also Facebook friends via our connection with Chicklet) and asked her, on the off chance, if they had any intention of selling the RV. Turns out they do, and they're only looking at getting a grand out of it.
After talking to my Aunt, who is a landlord and has owned several campers herself, she told me that even if we had to completely gut and remodel the RV to suit us, that we weren't going to find a 25 foot camper for that price anywhere else and it was her opinion that if we were going to purchase one, that we jump on that deal. A phone call gave me a heads up on what all she knows is wrong with it (there were some things they just never used, like the stove or heating system) and pretty much sealed the deal that we will be buying it.
Last night, I got on Google and found a really nice RV park that's only about 20 minutes from where Tiger lives, which means it's about 20 minutes from the job we are hoping Draco will be getting as well. Considering his job now is about 20 minutes from where we currently live, I'd say that's not too bad.
The site will cost us about $300/month with metered utilities, but with a camper that runs on propane for most things, and it just being the 2 of us, I don't see the power getting that bad. Internet is $10/month and accessible from every site and there is a $50 deposit on the power, paid to the park itself. They even have laundry facilities, although Tiger has a washer and dryer I could use, so I don't see needing that service. They even offer a propane fill service. You put your tank by the road, they pick it up, fill it, and bring it back to you.
So, our bills there will actually stay around what we are paying here, but with more income to pay them, and the job won't be weather conditional.
Honestly, I'm looking forward to this in a lot of ways. RV's have their own maintenance, but we'd be looking at that if we were buying a house or a mobile home, and honestly, I think it'll be a lot less maintenance in the long run. I know that it'll be a lot of work in the beginning, but even if we decided later to do something else, this is something that will belong to us, that no one will ever be able to take away from us.
|Baby Bump 1 (Photo credit: faemoon)|
He's right, and I know it. We have lived our entire relationship for our kids. Everything we've ever done has first had to pass thorough the filter of how it was going to effect our kids. That was as it should be at the time, but that time has passed.
The truth is, he's 40 and I'm heading closer and closer to it. We've never really lived just for us.
I look at Witchlet and her life and there are so many things she's doing right now that I wish were different, but the truth is, she's grown now and I can't control her life or the choices she makes. I will always love her and I will always be there for her to call me if she needs a shoulder, but she is going to have to learn to live with the choices she's making, for good or bad.
I feel like I have spent 20 years competing with my ex's family, especially his mother. Her relationship with Witchlet is toxic, and always has been, and I've expressed my concerns to Witchlet over and over, including my concerns where Little Witchlet is concerned, but she's not hearing me. Again, I suppose this is a lesson she's going to have to learn the hard way.
I know that for myself, I can't deal with them any longer and with the upcoming birth of Little Witchlet, and Witchlet's inability to remove them from her life, that it's going to be the same thing all over again with the baby. I thought if I came back here that maybe I could be there for Witchlet in some way that I wasn't before and she wouldn't feel the need for them anymore, but that's not how things have gone. No matter what I've done, or how much I've done, she still goes over there everyday. I can't stop her and it's time I stopped trying.
I suppose every parent goes through something like this. Even as adults, we want to protect our children, especially from the things that hurt us when we were raising them, but the truth is, Witchlet is going to make her choices and there's nothing I can do.
In other news, Spirit nearly broke my arm last night. She has a thing for my roommate's cats and she tried to dart after them with me holding her leash and it caused my arm to hit the porch post and almost snapped it at the elbow. I've got more use of it so far today than I thought I would, but it sore and it hurts, so I'm going to call this one a day and go. I have 3 days worth of meditation journaling I have to do for school and life has been so busy that I even let last night's full moon get away from me.